February 2026
Valentine's wooing, being deplatformed, NYC availability, and a big FUCK ICE.
Hey Perverts,
Ready to sacrifice your mind, heart, and flesh to me? Let’s keep this red hot romance going all February. I need your desire to be met with utter devotion. You know exactly how I expect you to please and woo me.
Deleted/Deplatformed
As many of you saw from my last post on here, my Twitter/X account got deleted by the platform. Many of you who follow other SWers have seen your favorites disappearing left and right either by the site or by choice to move to Bluesky. I’ve made a new Twitter/X for the meantime, however I’m not sure how long I’ll be able to stay on the site with their new TOS. If you are reading this and love to stay connected with me on my socials, your sub task for this month is to make an account and follow me on Bluesky. Moving forward Bluesky will be my main social media platform to stay connected with me.
I cannot express the importance for you as clients, submissives, and fans to move there to support us, and to tell us that you booked us from Bluesky. If you’re here lurking my substack, this is your sign to subscribe so you never lose me!
NYC + Virtual Availability
Let’s see who wins my heart and time this month…I adore Valentine’s day and all things romance. Show me just how much I mean to you with a romantic gesture/session/outing/spoiling from my wishlist. I’ve just updated it with new offerings and a service specific grouping.
UNAVAILABLE DATES
9th, 10th, 16th-18th, 25th.
Many of you know that winter is when I always get more tattoos worked on so plan accordingly as I’ll be selective of what I’m willing/able to do as my next back piece session heals this month. You’re going to love seeing more of my art work done so BOOK AHEAD, the 15th is the last day I’m FULLY available before I get tattooed.
Since the snow has been keeping things freezing in NYC I’ve been opening up my virtual availability as well! Getting to play with subs from all over the world has been an absolute delight. More and more of you helpless to my curves and control has me extra feral for new blood. Schedule some time with me via Sextpanther (my favorite platform for texting/calls/and video calls), Niteflirt (best for calls, not so much texting), and Loyalfans ( all of the above and more, especially for a sexy Valentine’s day drop with Ashley Paige in my clipstore coming soon).
Dungeon/Online Cravings
Fisting (I have short nails this month)
You being a good girl for me
Romantic roleplays
Couples sessions
Cucking w/ Steven Rise
Sounding
CEI
January Recap
Strap in. It’s a long one cause I’ve got A LOT to talk about this entry.
First, let’s start on the highlights of the past month shall we? I started the new year with a top high from playing with a plethora of new subs, each one of them (maybe even you) have been feeding so many different kinks of mine that I don’t always get the chance to play with. This new group of subs has left me feeling so fulfilled with creative and dedicated play. I want more of this.
While we’re on the topic of submissives….even I got to take a turn on that side in January! First, with a sexy queer video collab with Ashley Paige (keep your eyes out on our fan sites and clip stores for our drop). If you enjoy D/s service dyke romance you’re going to love our scene <3.
After almost two years I happily returned to rope suspension! It was so lovely to talk to the service provider about how that rope session felt like aftercare for me after topping full time for so long. I’ve deeply missed feeling connected to my body in that way, I’d love for clients to start sponsoring rope sessions for me as aftercare for myself after our sessions or if you enjoy getting to see my switchy submissive side sponsoring sessions for me <3.
Lots and lots of art was made and seen! I had the pleasure of shooting with Natasha Gornik in my leathers. Shooting a leather femme vibe I’ve been wanting to capture for a while, it was a huge honor to get to collaborate on that with Natasha before she retires shooting fetish work. Later in the month, I went to the Brooklyn Museum to see a photography show I’d been dying to see, Seydou Keïta: A Tactile Lens was so magnificent. As a photographer myself I was blown away by the way he captured his community and the scale and rich contrast of his film prints. Highly recommend going to see his work along with the Monet in Venice show. My iphone photos do not do them justice. If you go to see them i’d LOVE to talk about the show with you!
With the fun out of the way, I do need to get fucking really real with you guys….
It has been incredibly hard to be sexy 24/7 during times like these, I’m sure many of you have been feeling like this the past month, and for many of us the past year(s) with the political climate. What is happening in the U.S. with ICE is disgusting, inhumane, and terrifying. I’ve gone back and forth about discussing this but it felt important to write down for myself, for others, and for documenting a time in history we are all going through.
For most of us kink is a tool to escape the horrors of day to day, to join like-minded community, to release all our shit and feel held in our own special perverted way. I try my best to always show up and hold this space for my clients, I’m eternally honored so many of you choose me to help you do so! However recently I have come to realize, not everyone deserves kink.
Stay with me here, I need to tell you a story about last year and the first (and only ever) MAGA client I’ve seen. Sometimes as SWers we don’t have the luxury of turning a session down and that’s just how it is, despite everything in my body telling me not to see him unfortunately I was in a position where I couldn’t turn down work. I’ve never felt so disgusted and awful after a session as much as I did that one. I hated every second of having to pretend to hold space for someone that could support someone who stands for everything against my very existence as a queer Latina woman. You’d think getting to do the most fucked up shit to someone who stands for everything you despise would make you feel good right? Wrong. I wanted nothing to do with him, I couldn’t wait to get away, something I NEVER feel with clients.
Months pass and I get a text from said client asking to book a FMTY and what my rates and protocols were over a paid call. To no one’s surprise he of course would try to haggle my prices, my time, and disrespect my boundaries for his means to get what he wants. Mind you this client tells me in our first and only ever session that his relationship to kink is because he “loves to make women mad at him so they can take it out on him”, so I especially was not having it, I say no. Time goes by and he asks me to do the FMTY again and to use me as a reference for another provider, I decline both because of our last interaction, I did not feel comfortable vouching for him to another provider just for him to pull the same shit. You know what he had the audacity to try next? To ask to BUY me to be a reference for him, truly only the audacity a MAGA person would have, and for $60. I tell him to go fuck himself and swiftly block him. Good fucking riddance, I’d rather starve that continue to put up with any of that ever again, I finally listen to my gut like I should’ve the first time. Over the next month he continues to make different phone numbers with bullshit apologies to try to get me to still do the FMTY. Blocked. Each and every time. You showed exactly who I knew you would be and you know what? The money is never worth it.
I’ve never felt such a weight lifted off of my shoulders as that moment. We don’t have to put up with that, and you know what started to happen once I finally said enough? A plethora of incredible new subs from my writing earlier came my way. I’ve even begun a beautiful play dynamic with a sub not in the U.S. who went out of his way to congratulate me on joining in on the nation wide strike against ICE and sharing kind words for what I’m having to experience here. That’s who I want in my submissive circle. My good boys who stand on the correct side of the injustices going on. Who see and treat me like a person outside of what I provide for them.
There will always be a better sub around the corner that will honor you and your time and align with your values and boundaries. You don’t have to see these assholes, you don’t have to give them access to pleasure when they don’t deserve it.
What we’re seeing right now in the U.S. through the right/Trumpers is horrific. So yeah, I’ll say it with my full chest, MAGA folks don’t deserve a safe space in kink. They don’t deserve to be held or allowed in these spaces when they are part of why all of this happening. There is no “agree to disagree”. This is wrong, and I’m not going to pretend and play nice when we’re seeing history repeat itself but with a new demographic of innocent people. Why would I for a second pretend to hold their humanity when they wouldn’t ever do the same for me and my people? Fuck em.
I would not be here if it was not for the sacrifices of my immigrant parents. I am the first of my family born on U.S. soil. A queer, poly, kinky bitch. A life they never could of even dreamed of, all possible due to their sacrifice of leaving home for a better future. They gave me the chance to make my own destiny, to have a chance to dream and make it come true, to break the mold of what is expected of me as a woman, to break generational curses. I want the same for other immigrant families. I don’t want them to fear their loved ones being taken away, I want them to be able to dream, to have a choice. So we fight. We cannot become passive. We cannot let them get us. We must turn fear, helplessness, and overwhelm into action.
This is a serious writing for me, something I know many don’t recommend for our work and “branding”, but I’ve always been vocally politically engaged (being a young radicalized punk always aware of immigration status/racism/ableism/poverty will do that to ya). I’ve had many white clients come to me SPECIFICALLY for being vocally far left, and I’m proud as fuck for it as a Mexican dominatrix. I’ve had white subs do critical race readings, use their money to pay me/other QTBIPOC providers, pay for mutual aid efforts in my name, and so much more. I do believe in using whatever platform I have. As a professional dominatrix, I’m fully aware of my power over these men, clients that don’t align are not meant for me, and that’s good, they need to be put in their place outside of the dungeon too. I don’t want them, especially when I have so many incredible BIPOC, Queer, Trans, and left leaning clients who care for me outside of just getting them off. We as kinky people play with power in the dungeon/our sex lives, and to not acknowledge power in the outside world (whether to escape or play with) is foolish.
So with my whole chest, FUCK ICE. FUCK MAGA. It’s never too late to engage with political action, to put your time, body, mind, heart, and money where it matters.
Mistress Dahlia’s January Playlist
Here is a throwback to Latino/a/x punk that shaped my youth and i’ve been revisiting a lot lately. Listen, get inspired, stay united, let your sadness and anger move to action against what’s not right. ABOLISH ICE. NO HUMAN IS ILLEGAL.
A Wall - Downtown Boys. This entire live set from 8 years ago is worth the listen.
Reign of Fear - Alice Bag
Revolution - Ratas En Zelo
Life On The Border - Piñata Protest
Armas de Destrucción - Elektroduendes
Alerta Antifascista - Sin Dios
Ilegal Y Que? - Los Crudos
Clase Criminal - The Casualties
Metralleta - Generación Suicida
60s Latin funk, Psych & Garage [Vinyl Studio Session] with Viejo Perro Blanco from Humano Studios on Youtube
The last song is a youtube channel i’ve been listening to A LOT lately to relax, listen to that when you need to recenter/decompress/if you’re not a fan of punk music.
(side note, let me know if you like having links to the music i’m recommending!)
As always thanks for reading you sexy sluts.
Yours Cruelly,
A proud product of immigration.
Mistress Dahlia Domme.
xoxo